Lifestyle / Motivation


Do you ever meet people and wonder how their wives/husbands cope at home?

Do you ever meet people and silently pray for their spouses, children, neighbors and close acquaintances?

This ‘thing’ called character sticks closer than your shadow. For while the length, duration, and weight of your shadow are determined by the positioning of an element called THE SUN, your character is determined by everyone you come in contact with.

Come rain, come shine, storm or snow, blizzards or drought, your character is K-constant.

What you say, how you say it, how you treat people, your gaze, the silent innuendo that rings louder than a church bell.


It is who you are especially when no one is watching.

It only becomes glaring when people are watching.

The character is the real you!


  • Tijesunimi
    August 13, 2018 at 7:39 pm

    Your character is the real you.. Thank you for this piece dear

  • Victoria Oyedepo
    August 13, 2018 at 8:59 pm

    It is dear. Thank you😙

  • Lustre
    August 13, 2018 at 10:15 pm

    In total submission, character is the real deal. Character is the real us, you and I. Character is you while reputation is what you have with others… Character is primary.

    I must say, these words of yours, on your blog, they do well to keep me in check. Your knowledge pot will not break neither will it spoil.

  • Unknown
    August 14, 2018 at 10:13 pm

    Someone calls it the backdrop that catches stray pictures. Character speaks really loud.

  • Victoria Oyedepo
    September 14, 2018 at 4:04 pm

    The awesome feeling of reading from you. Thank you very much. Amen to your prayers.

  • Victoria Oyedepo
    September 14, 2018 at 4:05 pm

    Another perfect definition of character. Thank you Victor😙😙


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