A friend was complaining the other day about his girlfriend, how she is by all accounts voracious and grouchy.
Another friend complained about not having a girlfriend since he doesn’t have that much cash and according to him ”being in a relationship requires money, plenty of it.”
Contrary to the popular belief that money makes a woman happy, I beg to differ. It’s quite obvious that an average man and women still see a woman as property to be bought. Many women still believe in that thought. Money, Money, Money.
Does it mean women cannot work and earn their own money? NO.
Does it mean that even if you are a killer, cheater, and bad man as far you give women money it makes her happy? NO.
What happened to attention, affection, working together, fidelity and seeking her views before taking any action. Women are not a thing to buy. That orientation needs to be changed.
Does it mean all women with very rich partners are happy? NO.
Just because we are all women doesn’t make us all the same neither does it mean we all act the same way. We are all unique in our ways.
Here are a few things that are peculiar to most women
1. The main thing that you need to do is discover what is important to her. Reveal to her that she is important to you and just like the book review I was privileged to be a part of on Monday at my fellowship,”Five Love Languages” by Gary Chapman was more about distinguishing both your very own and your partners ‘essential main avenue for affection’, and acting as needs be, may be sure increment the positive communications in a relationship. On the other hand, the book will help in finding numerous approaches to demonstrate your affection to your partner
2. Time. Just give her your time. It’s worth more than a lot of other things.
3. Respects her views and always be a good listener.
4. Help her grow, this should be vice versa since you are complementing each other.
I work. I earn money. I have never been a fan of money. True care and RESPECT is what matters.
PS: In all your doings, don’t be a stingy partner.
We will talk about what makes a man happy tomorrow as I will be introducing a guest writer.
I’m not entirely certain I did justice to the issue so I have chosen to request the opinions of my revered readers. Kindly state what makes a woman happy in the comment section.