Hi guys, this Friday how about we do something different from the motivational talks and fashion, this blog has got lifestyle on it too😘. There’s this question that has been bothering me for a while and I am sure I have not been the only one to experience this.

If a friend or an acquaintance, or someone you know or talk to; don’t invite you when they throw a party; will you feel bad when you hear about it?

And when it’s time for you to throw your own party; will you invite or not invite them because they didn’t invite you, when they had theirs?

If you don’t invite them, does it fall under the spectrum of being petty or not?

Here is my own two cents on the matter;
Just like I always tell my best friend, ”if someone does something bad to you, don’t repay them that way. It doesn’t make you any better than they are. It only shows you are on the same level of mediocrity.”

DO WELL TO LET ME KNOW IN THE COMMENT SECTION!!! I will be waiting for you there.

How is the World Cup going at your end? Lest I forget, Happy Eid Mubarak to all muslim readers.


  • Lustre
    June 15, 2018 at 4:35 pm

    Lol… My life is simple.
    My response is just like yours.
    Repaying evil for evil or bad for bad is just too petty for our world.
    Live free. Die well.

    'Bout World Cup😂😂😂, just expecting Nigeria's first match.

  • Ladies of Delight
    June 15, 2018 at 4:41 pm

    My honest opinion : I will feel bad in the first place, but will make excuses for that could be that it skipped his or her mind, or that he or she tried reaching me and couldn't through to me. Even if none of these is the case,(a deliberate action) I will just let go.
    When I throw my party I will definitely let you know, there's no point repaying "bad for bad", absolutely nothing to gain.We are humans and sometimes we could act funny.

  • Unknown
    June 16, 2018 at 5:42 am

    It is wisdom not to repay evil for evil but one thing we need to be careful of when we throw ours and invite them: don't express any form of disappointment to them on seeing them at your own party. A lot of people may not be able to control this side of things. They may react in such a way to let the person know that what they did is bad.. But we don't need this at all.

    All hail the eagles!!

  • Victoria Oyedepo
    June 16, 2018 at 6:20 am

    Words of wisdom. Thank you very much sir for your contribution, it is well received.

    Up eagles!!

  • Victoria Oyedepo
    June 16, 2018 at 6:23 am

    Thanks for your honest contribution dear😍😍😍.
    Not a football fan right? Or are you going to be watching the match tonite?

  • Victoria Oyedepo
    June 16, 2018 at 6:25 am

    Exactly. Thanks for your honest contribution Joshua. Its always good to read from you.

    I'm definitely watching it today too.Up Eagles!!!


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